i out great effort into making sure that iam absolutely as unattractive as i can be
I don't shower often, i don't brush my hair, i wear baggy clothes, i don't wear deodorant...
all because ia absolutely hate it when men hit on me, it makes me feel nervous and angry and very scared

when iam with my mom she constantly points out when men are staring at me. it makes me so angry

she thinks it's compliment , i hate it and it makes me feel awful, not complimented
can anyone else relate?