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Originally Posted by Depressed-Fiance
Does anyone else think this is a little odd, basically I am in a new relationship with a lovely woman and she has told me that a certain person that she knows (I don't know if it is a family member or friend) has 'vetted' me to make sure I am who I say I am.
I've given my partner no reason to doubt that I am who I say I am but she told me this today and it struck me as being a little bit odd.
She told me that her previous partner wasn't 'vetted' because she knew him through her work and that I am a 'stranger' effectively to the family even though I've been dating my partner for two months now.
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This is normal in my family in this sense--when my mom first met H---endless questions---no beating around the bush. The same thing when my daughter went out with someone--endless questions from H about it--he made sure the boy knew he was on a short leash. That's how some people in some families are........