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Old Aug 08, 2017, 01:56 PM
Depressed-Fiance Depressed-Fiance is offline
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
A funny story though, I once dated a guy who we ended up making him prove he was legit because he was a con man passing off questionably stolen goods through our business.
That is understandable given what he is/was.

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Originally Posted by Erebos View Post
Given the ease of which it is possible to fake who and what you are these days, to change your name to escape factional passed.I think it's fairly reasonable, especially if you're to be around kids at any point, even if they aren't your partners, but relatives.
I totally agree with this. Because it's never happened to me before this 'vetting' thing then that is why I am a little perplexed by it all. I wasn't offended by it until I knew of the way in which this person went about trying to find out things and obviously doesn't trust me.

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Originally Posted by Erebos View Post
I am pretty certain his family have checked me out too, I am not offended by this, they want to limit the risk factors that caused him to get in trouble the first time.
I totally understand your families reasons for doing this.