So my husband and I sat down and talked about why he is much less interested in sex and almost cringes away when I try to initiate it and it seems like it is a reluctant chore for him. He said that when he was growing up and first having sexual experiences they were always with what ever easy girl would have him. Not experiences with girlfriend's or women he had any feelings for. And he said he now has an issue where sex and love are completely separate things for him and because he loves me he doesn't want to have sex with me. He really wanted me when we first started seeing each other and as his feelings for me grew his sexual motivation waned. He said he still finds me beautiful and attractive but once it gets to the us actually having sex part he feels not interested. Is there anyway to fix this? He said it is an issue he had prior to me and he thinks he is broken and ****ed up. I feel completely devastated and sexual intimacy and feeling desired by my husband is hugely important to me. Any comments or advice would be appreciate.