Thanks Elsa! I actually, personally, prefer to be honest and open with her, for a few reasons. Mainly, because I feel she needs to know. But also, I have boundary issues, and I want this to be over with. I feel that if I drag it on, by just fading out, she could one day be like "let's hang out," and depressed me, would say "ok!". On the other hand, I see her as a malicious and angry person. And I want to protect myself. I am going to think on it, and not do anything yet. Also, yes, ghosting hurts sometimes, but it's the persons doing the rejectings prerogative. But I really don't know what she would prefer. I'm not sure she deserves my caring over what she'd prefer.