It *could* have been dangerous which is why I said it's questionable but it wasn't actually dangerous correct? You can be upset on principle at your employer and the family but what does that leave you with exactly? Are you fearful they are stalking you? Lots of stuff in life has a potential danger....stepping outside your front door for one. I said no harm done because I don't think any real harm has been done other than cause trust issues with your girlfriend and the family which leaves you with a choice. How harmed are you? Is it worth ending the relationship over?