No I didn't know you cheat, it was a response to you saying that there shouldn't be guilt. I misunderstood you then. I thought you meant one can sleep with others with no guilt.

Since you brought up cheating I don't think you can claim that society made you do that. I just don't see how society makes us do anything that pertains to sex and relationships. Yes in the past. Not in 2017 in the western world imho.