After your child was born, did the two of you ever figure out a way to give yourselves time for just the two of you? Doesn't matter if it's only 2 hrs 1 day a week, so long as it's the same general time every week. Time both of you set aside for each other. You can do it while your toddler is napping if you can't get a babysitter, and find something to do at home - watch a movie, play games, talk about your dreams, etc. The point is, it let's both of you feel important to each other and allows you time to be close, which is important in any relationship. Don't be afraid to talk to him about things that are worrying or upsetting you either..it could be the best time to do it, because you have his full attention then.