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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Maybe they just overreacted to you because she had a really bad relationship before. I wouldn't say anything to my employer about it again.
The only thing that concerns me is this person she won't name was really aggressive and crossed lines, and I'd be afraid that they were capable of doing something upsetting like this or worse in the future.
It's like the father that says, "You hurt my daughter, I'll kill you."
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That's what I am thinking is that they overreacted to me because she has been scarred before. But still I don't think it makes it right for them to interrogate me indirectly.
That is what is concerning me, is that if this person is and can do this now with their checks, then just what else are they capable of?
I've met her parents and family etc and on the surface they seem ok. I don't know why she is refusing to name this particular person other than to protect him/her? It just seems dodgy to me.
It is frightening me a bit because I am constantly thinking what else are they doing behind my back that can 'verify' myself to them.
It's very unnerving.