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Originally Posted by ElsaMars
I will say this....if this really offended you the long term outlook for the relationship isn't good. Why? Because the family is likely to put their nose in places it doesn't belong even more as the relationship progresses. It's unlikely to dissipate once you're married. If you want things to work, make sure to know and communicate where your boundaries are.....that way they can decide and tell you if they are comfortable conforming to them. Good luck.
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It has offended me and I think my partner knows this. But yet she has this don't care attitude because I've been scarred before and it's my family that care etc and that's why they look out for me is what she would say.
The family have proved what they are capable of and the lengths they are prepared to go so I think anything else is entirely possible from them and that is what scares me.