No I agree. From my point of view I can't see the point in getting married. It is still just a trap for women. Not only in the marriage ceremony which typically you need pay for as a woman, but, then it is really hard to get out of. I don't see why anyone would do it. Many women I know who married ended up paying the guy. Or 10K to get a divorce (even if agreed to)

I don't believe in "forever" love. And I think the "contract" of marriage ruins that if it was possible. People just get sick of each other in all relationships and need a break. That is the most healthy thing. To understand that.

I know it is possible that society has changed some issues on marriage but I find it disgusting that so much else seems 100% related to you getting married. At my workplace, you don't get a party for your birthday but if you get married you get one. Why? That is celebrating an outsider. There are many more benefits if you are married (such as you can put your spouse on your insurance plan) and finally I have opposed gay marriage only because the entire reason hey want "marriage" is tantamount to saying that the benefits that are given to heterosexual couples are an advantage and it violates equal protection not to give that to homosexuals.. but that ignores the fact that you are giving preferential treatment to people because of a choice that they make that the government likes. I don't see why it doesn't violate my rights not to be able to get these things as a single person.