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Originally Posted by goatee
I don't care about the mixup at all. She was apologetic and she tried to make up for it. And yes, we are all human and all make mistakes. But I just hope she didn't lie to me. One of the things that matters the most to me is how she is so scrupulously honest. We had something a few months ago where it looked to me like she was lying about it and I asked her about it and she had an explanation that totally made sense and I realized that she wasn't lying at all. I'm hoping it's the same with this but I can't imagine what it would be. I don't want to mention it because it just seems nitpicky but I just want to be able to hold onto the fact of knowing that she's totally, totally honest. That is important to me and makes me feel safe.
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I think it's very, very important for you to bring it up with her. It's not nit picky at all. You need to feel safe & have the right to feel safe & if you have any doubts, you should definitely bring it up. If it is a genuine mistake on her part, she will put your mind at rest. If not, then I would suggest, she's not going to be the right t for you. This is grist for the mill, for them. I'm sure she would be pleased for you to bring it up, especially as you are showing a side of you where you struggle.