At my church there is a Mom 2 Mom bible study group that isn't overly religious...usually doing bible studies on some aspect of parenting or better living. It's kind of a support group for moms. Childcare is provided. You could check into something like this in your area whether it's at church or outside of church. Even though you are an older mom, be open to having mom friends of all ages who have children around the same age as your daughter. Finally, your daughter will soon reach the age where she may get into softball, cheerleading, gymnastics or something similar and you can make friends that way. Good luck and best wishes.