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Originally Posted by Artchic528
I second that. Why stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy? This question right here is what you need to ask yourself, and work with a personal T to fully understand. You need to put yourself first. Obviously you and your needs are more important than everyone else right now. Put them first. If you don't know how to do that, work with the aforementioned personal T to help you learn how to do so.
Remember, your happiness is the most important thing to achieve right now. No one else's.
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You're right. The deep down thing is I have low self esteem. I don't put myself first. I put my son first right now. I am staying in this house and letting him go to his HS where he is happy. I like the security of being with my h, having a partner, having someone who I really do enjoy as a person to be with. If only we can fix this problem that causes us to be trapped in hell with each other, we could e so happy. Oy vey!
