Hello,
Since my other thread went off on a tangent, I'm creating another one here. I decided to not waste all of my energy on my married lover and will be seeing another lover. I have no interest in marriage so for me two lovers are more interesting and less emotionally draining. The married lover is still on the dating site looking for other women. Thus, I don't feel guilty about seeing another lover. I think I was becoming attached to the married lover but realized he is always looking for some booty. Even though I like him, I don't think he can be faithful to anybody. He is cheating on his wife and probably having some mid-life crisis. I also can't become too involved with him emotionally because he is not faithful to anybody. I might eventually become tired of him and leave him. The other lover is my previous lover who is always busy with work but comes around for his booty call. I like him too but know we will never marry. As a result, I am having fun with both men and am not too worried about hurting them or being hurt by them. I love sex so being booty call and talking occasionally is fine with me. I was mad at the previous lover for not communicating as much but realize he is truly busy with his work. Anyways, life is good and I'm doing fine. It works out well because I like both men physically and enjoy being with them as lovers. I don't want to get involved emotionally either because it is not worth it for me. Might as well enjoy life because life is short! Any comments?
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