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Old Aug 11, 2017, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
He does an excellent job. He's an employee of a group and the group got replaced. So he has to go with the group.

I am appalled at myself. I have been hysterical and seeking a solution and support on here and from my family and friends for so long.

Now I just accept I am the one who is damaged.

Why does my h put up with me? Why hasn't he thrown me out?
I think I maybe am not understanding the issue. Unfortunately people lose jobs. He is likely to find another one. Do you live in the area with no jobs? Why is it causing so much devastation and drama? Is he just as devastated? What exactly are you so upset about it? Are you afraid of bankruptcy and foreclosure? I am lost on exact reason of hysteria. Can you manage on his unemployment compensation for few months? Do you have savings?