I have felt jealousy for my T's family. I think it is natural for those of us who grew up in families that were not always safe and supportive. It's still painful to experience, though.

If it puts your mind at ease, when I started with T his kid was a baby. He has always been stable and available. I actually get some comfort from it--I know he needs a continuous income stream and therefore has incentive to work steadily!

Talking with your T about your concerns will help.