Ok. You say that you aren't the hunk you used to be. I don't think you're as bad looking as you think you are. Even IF that were true, a lot of women are attracted to intelligence, sense of humor and kindness. There was a guy that I was madly in love with years ago. He could not by any stretch of the imagination be called handsome but there was a certain something about him that made him irresistible to me and many others. I know rejection hurts. I'm super sensitive to it as well but you need to learn to like yourself and keep putting yourself out there. Someone will come along. Good luck. Sending big hugs.