Oh no. Not cool at all! I had a homebirth with my amazing midwife after dumping my terrible OB. I would FLIP OUT if my therapist insulted midwives! I'm a midwife convert for life and I tell everyone I know to find a midwifery care in some form or another. The concept of being transferred IS very sad and definitely something to grieve. I'm so sorry! Me personally, I would find that enough cause to find a new therapist, as awful as that concept is. I feel like a fundamental concept of therapy is for the therapist to be on your side, that unconditional regard, regardless of their own personal opinions they should keep to themselves. Hugs to you!