I agree. I also think respecting somebody's boundaries means different things for different people. What is off-limits for one person or relationship might be completely fine for another person or relationship. I try to respect my T's boundaries, but I know that she would want me to bring up questions or concerns I had about something like a pregnancy, particularly when it has the potential to disrupt therapy. Based on the way jDNA has described her T, it seems like he would similarly welcome talking about and working through how the new baby might impact her and their relationship.