Hello to you both; Matt22 and Doh2007, This whole subject has been a great personal journey through which I've
struggled to maintain some sense of dignity and worth.
But alas the battle was more than just "them and me" but it
mounted to grow and take on a power beyond the scope of
which you could measure. It took away my self control
and hunted me down to such an extent I became totally
devalued and that was hard to accept. Please send me a PM
with what ever view you apply to this post. I hope we
can discuss this further. Take care DB