It's all about perspective.
I once had occasion to talk at length with a homeless gentleman. He was quite an interesting guy -- not in the least because he insisted he wasn't homeless: He owned a tent.
Where I live, we got over a foot of snow between Sat. afternoon and Sunday night. How'd you like to live in a tent on a riverbank, like that guy, in those conditions? If you have a solid roof over your head and a better means of warding off extremes of weather, there's something to be grateful for right there.
All your loved ones OK? There are a bunch of people who thought they would be seeing theirs for the holidays, only to have them die in accidents on the bad roads from that storm.
Is there food in your fridge? Is your fridge running? Congratulations: You have electricity, which often is a means of heat, and the ability to go to the store and buy what you want to eat instead of digging through a dumpster for people's leftovers. There's something to be grateful for.
A couple weeks ago, I was an idiot and stepped on a glass, which ended up requiring stitches in the bottom of my foot. I drove myself to the doctor in the middle of the night, handed over my insurance card, and got it taken care of. Do you have access to health care and transportation to get you to the doctor when needed? Hey, there's something to be grateful for.
Are you able to read this post? Do you agree with it? No? Congratulations: You have an education, and you live somewhere your communications aren't monitored, so you won't be jailed or murdered for expressing your dissent. There's something to be grateful for.
"Though much is taken, much abides;
And though we are not now that strength
Which in old days moved earth and heaven,
That which we are, we are:
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will:
To strive, to seek, to find,
And not to yield."
--Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Alf had it all when it came to perspective.
Peace and blessings to all.
Candy
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