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sunrise said:Yes, you should tell him. You can use the concrete example above, of how he rejects your fears when you try to share. He cannot deny that it happens, when you use specific examples. My T says it helps him to help me better when I tell him what is not working in our therapy. He is not defensive or critical. I think, on the whole, T's like to get feedback from their clients so they can do a better job. Maybe your T will react better than you fear? I think it's worth a try!

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Thanks, sunrise, for replying. You seem to be the only one who read my post. Or maybe people read it but did not want to reply. Where are all the Wise Ones who always have something to say, to tell you what to do, without really understanding the stakes?

Sorry for the tone of this post. I am really feeling frightened this morning. I wonder if ANYONE really wants to know what happened to me.

I have recently read a couple of books which illustrate what happens to people who have terrible experiences and then no one wants to hear them and everyone (it seems) denies the reality of their experiences. Namely, "Soul Murder" by Morton Schatzman, and "Female Sexual Abuse of Children" edited by Michelle Elliott. No one should read these books who needs desperately to believe in "authority."