For me number

1) One does not enter into it with the explicit goal of healing or receiving treatment or being re-parented.

10) There isn't generally such absolute seclusion.

seemed to be the only differences for me with my former therapist and

6) The other person is not relating to you in a scripted or studied way, based on psychological theories and techniques.

That's how I myself attack my "real intimate relationships" to protect myself from intentional and unmentionable harm of others.