While you may have a point, it still doesn't change the fact that getting married is rather illogical if you aren't doing alright financially and have a spouse that isn't going to betray you later down the road; something that a high percentage of people, unfortunately, aren't lucky enough to have.

If you aren't well off enough financially to where you can take a hit on the debts and the higher expense of certain services and other living expenses that a married couple has to deal with these days, then the rational choice would be to actually do something about your money issues first before getting married. Why cause yourself more needless struggle when one doesn't need a fancy ceremony and a legal binding contract to love?

Similarly, if one gets married to somebody who is untrustworthy or abusive, than they are setting themselves up for needless pain and hardship. Such a choice is little more than a logical fallacy.

Sorry to sound so harsh and I apologize in advance if I offended anyone, but I have always found it frustrating when people make such significant choices in life that could hurt them later on over listening to their feelings, which have a habit of causing people to make irrational decisions. I am a logical person and an INTJ after all