for me.... first there is a "wanting to trust".... trusting.. "trust"...

and I set my T's up... all of them.. each and everyone of them... and see if they lie... yepper... is easy.. very easy to do this... BUT you must be ready to deal with the consequences of finding out if they indeed do lie... and I think most people... really aren't ready to find that out for sure...

also... my T... comes from a background.. where he understands.. the extreme importance of not lying.. of trust..

he expects the same from me... he needs to be able to trust me... he places high importantance on this... ie... my alters.. if they promise not to hurt themselves... they must mean it.....