You stated you got married to make it an official forever love. That means you saw a benefit. The benefit being it made it official and forever. Benefit does not have to mean financial and I was in no way assuming otherwise. I dont presume anything but you have. I could go further but i see no point arguing. You're not entirely wrong and I'm not entirely right and I'm happy with us leaving it at that. I'm not coming at you, just stating facts as I see them. I could claim you are coming at me but I'd be presuming which I try not to do.....I don't always succeed as I'm human and flawed but I try. I hope I didn't upset you with my opinion. I hope things work out for you, I really do.