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Originally Posted by ElsaMars
You stated you got married to make it an official forever love. That means you saw a benefit. The benefit being it made it official and forever. Benefit does not have to mean financial and I was in no way assuming otherwise. I dont presume anything but you have. I could go further but i see no point arguing. You're not entirely wrong and I'm not entirely right and I'm happy with us leaving it at that. I'm not coming at you, just stating facts as I see them. I could claim you are coming at me but I'd be presuming which I try not to do.....I don't always succeed as I'm human and flawed but I try. I hope I didn't upset you with my opinion. I hope things work out for you, I really do.
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Thank you for this. To be honest, up until this I did feel very attacked and reacted as such. I know I came off harshly bc it was intended that way. Now that I know you did not intend to offend me, I apologize for the harshness. I truly did feel you were "outting" me as if I were some sort of liar in the start of this conversation which in what incited the anger n defensiveness in me. Sorry. We are both human and as such both make mistakes. Perhaps you misworded or I misinterpreted, not sure. Either way, glad it's cleared. As far as my presumptions, I don't know, again maybe those were misinterpretations of something you said. When I am angry or defensive I do tend to misinterpret more than usual. Under normal circumstances, I ask before assuming anything if not directly told something as fact. I actually annoy people that way. Anyway, I do wish you well. Take care.