When you find the right person IRL or he becomes a IRL person. Im sure you will be quite capable of having a good relationship with the person. Its hard enough gettkng to REALLY know someone IRL

Bad relationships often happen becausd the people desperately want a relationship even when they are incompatible. Initially they want it so bad then the reality that they really didnt know the person is & they dont like what they ended up with. Add the inabiluty through internet of only knowing what they wany you to know.

I would just say that you have been seriously thinking this over & honestly dont see a point in having an exclusive online relationship with someone you have no IRL contact with & if the tkme ever comes when you do get together you will gladly reconsider after hettkng to really know him.