I was in the same boat as you. Unexpected pregnancy, going well in my career. I was undiagnosed then and did some crazy stuff during her growing up years. It wasn't until she was 17 when I was properly diagnosed, and she was a hellion by then.

She's now 20 and talks to me everyday. We still love each other and that's what matters. She now realizes that some of the stuff I pushed her through (like therapy and meds) was for trying to help her. She's now working hard, going to college, and saving up for a place of her own. I can't be more proud of her.