Is there a type of a psychological or personality disorder in which people are very passive aggressive in their interactions with other people, avoidant, constantly employ manipulative tactics and cyclically push their friends away when issues need to be dealt with, but pull them back when they have their own interests to deal with?

Now, some of the common traits I've managed to identify between them are the following:
-Selfishness
-Refusal to face own mistakes
-Refusal to accept blame
-Near constant appeal to emotions and/or mutual memories
-Total self-absorption