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Originally Posted by iPhone
I really don't understand people like these. Don't offer something unless you're really willing to give it, it's that simple. It's like posting an ad for a free dog and then getting mad when someone comes to get it.
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Exactly! I feel like the person who took the group to Burger King should not have offered if she was getting tired of taking us and paying. After that incident, I never ate if we went to a restaurant. I would always hope it was on campus but if we met off campus, I would actually eat before leaving so I would not have to eat out. I had a friend who would offer rides to other friends and then get mad that she feels like she has to do it even though she clearly didn't, and even after people told her she didn't have too.
Also several months ago my coworker offered me a ride to work since it was super convenient several times and I even offered her gas money a couple times as repayment and she said no. And then started acting annoyed that she felt like she had to offer rides even though she clearly didn't have to and I even told her that. I stopped accepting offers from her as well. And that's why I am now afraid to accept offers from other people, especially if it is someone who has previously gotten mad at me in the past.