I wrote a reply to this, but don't see it now. Short and sweet, I was told it's not reasonable (although if a person has a physical disability, that's different) when I posted here or in another group about needing my boyfriend to stay home sometimes instead of going on all the trips he does. I'm with you, I don't think it's unreasonable, as long as it isn't all the time, but apparently, we're wrong. I do think a person has the right to not get into a relationship with us if they can't handle it.