I sent this:

Dear T,
Thinking about today's session, there's a couple of things you said that I really don't understand the meaning of, and I think it would be really helpful for me if you could have a think about what you meant specifically so we can discuss it next session.
You said that you felt I wanted to be respectful of boundaries but that I also wanted to affect you, then you said that you trust me not to do "the second bit". ie affecting you. So I would really like to know what affecting you means in that context. What do you trust me not to do?
Then when you said I want you to show me love. What does that mean specifically? In what ways would I want that to manifest? I was really struck by the assured tone of your language "that's what I think you want". I was really confused T because I'm not aware of wanting anything from you other than that which you already give me.
I am glad we managed to communicate with each other towards the end. I still feel like these points need clarification though.
Please respond if possible (but obviously save the answers to my questions for next week).
Thanks
RS

He replied:

Dear RS,

Thanks for your questions and I shall give some careful thought to how I might be able to clarify what I meant by each of those statements.

I too was pleased that we were able to find a way to connect in the latter stages of our time together yesterday.

See you next week,

best wishes
T

I'm glad he's going to think carefully about it.