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Originally Posted by BlueJeans00
Is this normal for a therapist to say this?
So I told my therapist how this one person I know
told me they didn't like looking after kids or even want kids. It upsetted me for some reason. I recalled telling my therapist how I don't know why it upsetted me then my therapist said this. "Maybe she reminds you of your mum.
Maybe your mum shouldn't had kids"
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Maybe your therapist meant
"Maybe she reminds you of your mum- how you feel that she shouldn't have had kids if she didn't like them"?
If not, the first line is Normal but the second line?
Totally NOT normal.
I sincerely hope that was some form of momentary semantic error or something. I can't even imagine how upsetting it'd be to hear this as someone going for therapy.
Hell, even for someone who's not attending therapy!