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Originally Posted by Trace14
I agree that it was rude remark and degrading to women. I can understand why you were so upset. This may have been the straw that broke the camels back. In looking at it you could say it was just a joke and let it go. But for some reason this really hurt you and you need to see what that's all about. Do you want to live like this? Are there options?
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I sure don't want to leave my husband over a joke he made.To him,it was just a funny comeback to being called a pu*sy and I want to believe it wasn't meant to degrade me or trigger me.
I know that I have reacted to it in this way because of csa,from being ridiculed and laughed at after being sexually abused as a child.That's exactly how his joke made me feel when he and the other person laughed about what he said.
Maybe holding a grudge and holding him responsible for my reaction is wrong.