Have you told her that these things bother you and that you feel like she's judging you about these things? If she has been useful in the past, it might be worth seeing if you can talk this out with her.

FWIW sometimes I interpret people as judging me negatively about the things that I feel negatively about, because those things make me feel insecure, and later when I think about it I realize that the person probably did not mean anything negative. Not saying that's for sure the case here, but maybe worth considering, asking her what she meant.