My statement, "I've had a therapist say something similar and it made a lot of sense for me" is me saying that when my therapist said it to me that it made sense at the time given what the therapist knew about my particular relationship with my mother. No, my therapist was not saying or agreeing that I should not have been born. It was her attempt to explain my mother. I saw it as a fitting statement. I also understand it in the way @t@t and others explained it. The way you understood it never occurred to me.