I so relate to this situation. People are always saying, 'Do you remember when..... ' and inside I'm saying ..."No!.. I did that?...or wow, where was I when this was going on?" Luckily in most cases I've done something nice that they thought was important or something they really needed at some point; but that I didn't even realize it. Sometime I worry that I am showing early signs of Alzheimer's, I can't image what I'll be like in 20 more years.

I hope things get better with your husband.