Sending hugs and good thoughts. Wish I had something helpful to say. I'm going to be talking about death with my t next week, I'll be attending the funeral of my beloved ex-pastor (he retired in 2012 but I've known him for 36 years and have always had a special place in my heart for him) on Friday while I'm visiting friends in the midwest. I'd already planned the trip prior to his death and funeral being scheduled for while I'm there. A giant sign from the universe that I must go. I want to call t but there's really no point there's nothing she can do anyway. So I'll wait to talk to her when I get back next week. Maybe I'll have more to comment then....