I get virgin shamed

but I am weird.
I've been asked by a girl directly why I've never had a gf, she found really weird cause I was a Handsome 28 yrd. I told her the truth, that I was crazy. I just can't tell her the real reason.
but with social media like facebook, It makes it really hard for me to find someone, because your business goes out to all your family, friends. I'm afraid to date someone with a facebook account.
Virgin shaming may not be fair to everyone, but its true in my case. I would need to properly rehabilitate myself before I could get a gf.