I have not been perusing this woman at all other then working together.
The thing is I know I have done nothing wrong, I can't control these thoughts but I still feel guilty because I can't help but think of this other woman even when I'm with my wife.
We had a date night last weekend. The night before we had a big fight so we were still angry with each other and it didn't go as well as it could have.
I think you may be right, I may feel guilt because of the negative feelings I've had for my wife lately. I don't know how much of it is because of this other woman or how much has to do with trying to reevaluate things with myself and my wife but I don't know what I feel for my wife right now. I know its cliche to say but I think I might love my wife but not be in love with her. Right now I can't even tell her I love her to her face. Its just a very confusing place in my head right now