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Old Aug 17, 2017, 01:54 AM
Anonymous48850
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Yes, she does like you, but it's not clear how much, and maybe she doesn't know either. Think of it like a spectrum of experience. So at the beginning, it's just social chat whenever you meet. Then one of you has to ask if you want to get coffee/ lunch or whatever. And just go from there. It may be that it just stops there and you end up as friends who are sociable but with whom there's no romantic element. I've had a male friend about the same age as me (50s) for many years. He started out as my boss and I've worked with or for him in 4 different jobs over the years. He is very happily married with a gorgeous wife and 2 beautiful children. I've never thought about him in a romantic way, and I'm sure he never has me either. But he's just a really nice guy. We're really good friends. We live over 300 miles from each other so we only physically meet for work related reasons.

It's hard to look for signals as to when a friendship moves into different territory if you suck with people (!). So just take it slowly and gently. Let her do the talking. Maybe think about telling her that you're better with tech than people, and would welcome her advice on people related stuff. I know it's hard, but just relax and enjoy the experience!