Rain,

In regards to the overwhelm you feel in regards to things you now have to take care of. I don't know that she was inferring "Let's get on with it", so much as I think she wants you to get the most out of your sessions and if you dont need my help, let's move on to something I can and you do need help with. Or did you really need help but just prefaced that part with I dont need help accidentally? Venting can be a good thing in T but if you are getting what you need from friends...support, help, etc. Maybe T felt she was doing a disservice to let you continue. However, if it's really something you need to talk about maybe talk to T and explain why. She should be able to help you understand her thought process.

As for the rest, death is a difficult subject especially for the person talking about theor experiences and it's easy to take things the wrong way or over-personalize comments made. Apologize for snapping at her and explain that you were hurt by her responses throughout the session. Maybe even let her know that while you had plans for that session what you started talking about was also important to you and deserve the freedom to break from "scheduled item" even if to just vent about something. It is YOUR therapy afterall.