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Originally Posted by John Dough
Thanks again for everyone's help, I appreciate hearing different opinions.
I know I haven't done anything wrong but I feel so guilty. Any advice how to deal with the guilt?
My wife definitely knows something is up now, I know I can't tell her about this but I'm struggling with how I try to explain why I'm acting differently with her
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Part of you acting differently is because of her lack of interest in intimacy with you. Let her take some responsibility for that.
I think most people in a long, ongoing relationship go in and out of feeling "in love." I know I sure do. Two weeks ago, I felt like I was ready to
withdraw permanently from my guy. I got over it. In a marriage or in any committed relationship, you just "ride out" the sterile-feeling intervals. You fake it, till the need for that is replaced by genuine affection. Sometimes, you just "do your duty" . . . IMHO.