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Originally Posted by Travelinglady
Hello, confused2017, and welcome to Psych Central! He might be separated from his wife, but he's sure not separated from anything else about her. That bothers me, especially since he's showing he doesn't care about your feelings. I assume he sees his wife at all these events.
I honestly think you should move on.  |
Thank you for your post, I really appreciate it. You're right, he does not seem to care about my feelings at all. I think that is the part that hurts me the most.
Yes, he sees her at these events so it sort of feels like they are still a "family"....or pretending to be. Since that one time, he has told me that he would not attend any more of her family functions. He has followed through on it so part of me thinks he sort of cares.
He has also done a couple things on his own. His son graduated grade 8 in June and his ex invited him to her place for a party (her family and his parents were there). He didn't tell me about the party until after but he did not attend. He only went to the school to see the graduation. I do like that he did that because I feel it showed respect for my feelings, but also he was still "there" for his son.
They were never married, I guess I should have said they broke up 2.5 years ago.