It is hard to only call her once a week due to our children. She was very stressed out this holiday season because I was not there to help her. I feel really bad about that, but I thought that is what she wanted. I had a rough time Christmas eve and Christmas because I was not feeling well and when I don't feel well I get a little grumpy(actually now it is more depressed). I try my hardest to let her know that I am here for her but I don't think she really knows it...