Dear Friend: There is a wonderful line in the first Princess Diaries movie (my daughters favorite) that I try to repeat to myself - "No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." Your self worth is not determined by how others treat you. Don't get me wrong.....I have the same dark places and feelings that you do. I question my worth and wonder sometimes if I am a failure too. But keep fighting. You are worth it and so am I.