I am told I do not think strait. My husband got me to take antidepressant 10 years ago. I am still on them, he says I am still not stable. Sometimes I think he get me to take them just to control me better and so I can be more passive and that way he can just always get what he wants. 2 months ago he told me to swich meds because the ones I was on took away my libido. I went thur hell (am still there) over this switch just because he want sex. I am the one that should be mad he never gave me an orgasm. But he says it all my fault. He want to separate because I have no libido. I said I will still do sex but he says it no good if I dont like it, he wont let me do it. I cant belive he is complaining about this, he's the one that wanted me to take antidepressant. You have to take the good with the bad, you cant always get your way.

How do I know if I am being abused or if I am imagining it.