Snarky, subtle, and condescending were at times, what my former t was to me. I despised it and it caused me more pain, being that I was very attached to her.
It injured trust and without trust, there was no foundation.

If it doesn't feel good to you, it might be the best thing to do for you. I don't think we always need to "suffer" through things and endure the pain of situations that we should leave, but only you know all of the details to your T relationship and I don't want to impose my beliefs onto you.

I'm quicker to leave now, if I don't feel it.